The Going Out Ceremony: Your Ultimate Prep Guide for the Perfect Night
Hey, it-girls! We’re back, and this time we’re tackling one of the most important rituals of any social butterfly’s life: the going-out ceremony. Got a big party or a major event coming up? Well, here’s your ultimate guide to perfecting both your appearance and your mindset for the night.
Let's be real: sometimes, the getting ready part is just as exciting as the event itself. From planning your outfit to experimenting with makeup, it’s all part of the magic. Personally, when I’m nervous about attending an event, planning every detail helps me stay grounded. When you feel great in your own skin, your confidence naturally soars, and you can actually focus on enjoying the night and the people you’ll meet. So, here’s my tried-and-true checklist for preparing, both inside and out, to absolutely crush it at your next event.
Outer Prep: The Glam Checklist
A Fresh Manicure. Neat, clean nails are a must. Whether you go for a classic nude or a bold pop of color, a perfect mani makes a huge difference in how polished you feel.
Self-Tanner. A subtle glow can really elevate your look. Whether you prefer a gradual tan or an instant one, this step will give you that sun-kissed radiance that makes any outfit pop.
Hair Glossing. Give your hair that extra shine with a glossing treatment. It’s like a quick glow-up for your locks, leaving them silky and reflective under party lights.
Face Shaving. Yes, face shaving! It’s not just for guys. A quick face shave gives you smoother skin, making makeup application flawless and giving your complexion that extra glow.
Shimmering Body Lotion. This is the final touch. A lightly shimmering body lotion will highlight your collarbones, shoulders, and legs, giving you an ethereal glow.
Outfit Planning. The holy grail of any night out. Plan your outfit head to toe, including shoes, jewelry, and even your handbag. Lay everything out the night before so you’re not scrambling at the last minute!
Inner Prep: Mindset Mastery
Who’s Going to Be There? Think about the guest list. Is there anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable? If so, mentally prepare for how to handle those situations with grace.
What’s the Goal of the Night? Is it a networking event? A celebration? Setting a personal goal—whether it's to make new connections or just have a great time—will keep you focused and relaxed.
Conversation Starters. Go in with a few conversation topics in mind. Knowing what to talk about makes socializing so much easier, especially in situations where you might feel awkward at first.
Time Management. Know your schedule. From the time you leave the house to when the event ends, having a plan ensures you won’t be stressed about logistics and can fully enjoy the night.
So there you have it! My ultimate guide to prepping for a night out. From outer glow to inner confidence, this routine guarantees you’ll feel like your best self when you step out the door. Do you have extra tips for feeling like your best self before you go out? Share them with us on Instagram @itgrlarchive_ Remember, the best part of any event isn’t just about looking good—it’s about feeling great, inside and out. Now, go out there and own the night!